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Valentina Costa

Hi! I’m Valentina Costa — an architect by training and a mom passionate about raising children with love, respect, and presence. I created Mudei de Status to share reflections, experiences, and practical tips on parenting, always with the perspective of someone who believes that, just like spaces, relationships can also be transformed with care, creativity, and purpose. Here on the blog, you’ll find real, heartfelt content made for those who want to raise emotionally strong kids, while bringing more lightness and connection into everyday life. Welcome to Mudei de Status, where motherhood and transformation go hand in hand!

How to Teach Children About Gratitude and Appreciation

How to Teach Children About Gratitude and Appreciation

In a world filled with instant gratification and constant stimulation, teaching children to slow down and appreciate what they have is more important than ever. Gratitude is more than just saying “thank you” — it’s about recognizing the good, feeling thankful for it, and expressing that feeling with intention. Children who develop gratitude early in …

How to Help Kids Develop Self-Discipline

How to Help Kids Develop Self-Discipline

Self-discipline is a crucial life skill that helps children control their impulses, stay focused, and make responsible choices. Teaching kids self-discipline early sets them up for success in school, relationships, and future careers. This guide provides practical strategies to help children develop self-discipline in a positive and supportive way. 1. Why Is Self-Discipline Important? Self-discipline …

How to Teach Emotional Intelligence to Children

Emotional intelligence is a crucial skill that helps children understand, manage, and express their emotions in a healthy way. It also enables them to develop empathy, build strong relationships, and navigate social situations effectively. Teaching emotional intelligence from an early age sets the foundation for lifelong success in personal and professional relationships. In this article, …

How to Teach Kids Responsibility from an Early Age

Teaching responsibility to children is essential for their development. Responsible kids learn to take care of their belongings, fulfill commitments, and understand the impact of their actions. This skill helps them become independent, reliable, and successful in life. This guide provides practical ways to instill responsibility in children from an early age. 1. Why Is …

How to Teach Your Child to Apologize Sincerely

Teaching children how to apologize sincerely is an essential life skill that helps them develop empathy, responsibility, and strong social connections. However, many kids struggle with saying “I’m sorry” in a meaningful way. Some may resist apologizing altogether, while others may say it without truly understanding its importance. In this guide, we’ll explore why sincere …

The Importance of Emotional Intelligence in Parenting

Parenting is more than just providing food, shelter, and education—it’s also about nurturing a child’s emotional development. Emotional intelligence (EQ) plays a crucial role in raising happy, well-adjusted children who can manage their feelings, build strong relationships, and navigate life’s challenges. In this article, we will explore what emotional intelligence is, why it’s essential in …