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Valentina Costa

Hi! I’m Valentina Costa — an architect by training and a mom passionate about raising children with love, respect, and presence. I created Mudei de Status to share reflections, experiences, and practical tips on parenting, always with the perspective of someone who believes that, just like spaces, relationships can also be transformed with care, creativity, and purpose. Here on the blog, you’ll find real, heartfelt content made for those who want to raise emotionally strong kids, while bringing more lightness and connection into everyday life. Welcome to Mudei de Status, where motherhood and transformation go hand in hand!

How to Encourage Independence in Children

How to Encourage Independence in Children

Encouraging independence in children is one of the most important gifts you can give them as a parent. Independence not only boosts a child’s self-confidence but also teaches them responsibility, problem-solving, and resilience. The goal is to help your child become a self-sufficient, confident individual who is capable of handling challenges and making decisions. In …

How to Create a Healthy Routine with Young Children

How to Create a Healthy Routine with Young Children

Establishing a healthy routine for young children is one of the most important steps parents can take to ensure their child’s physical, emotional, and mental well-being. A consistent routine provides structure, predictability, and a sense of security, all of which are essential for a child’s development. In this article, we’ll explore the key components of …

How to Create a Calm-Down Corner at Home for Kids

How to Create a Calm-Down Corner at Home for Kids

As parents, one of the challenges we face is helping our children navigate their emotions. Kids experience big feelings—whether it’s frustration, anger, sadness, or overstimulation—and it can sometimes be difficult for them to manage these emotions in a healthy way. One effective solution is creating a “calm-down corner” in your home. This designated space can …

How to Build a Strong Bond with Your Child Through Daily Routines

How to Build a Strong Bond with Your Child Through Daily Routines

Connection is at the heart of parenting. While grand gestures like vacations and gifts have their place, the deepest bonds between parent and child are built in the small, everyday moments — especially through routines. From breakfast to bedtime, these daily interactions offer countless opportunities to strengthen emotional ties, build trust, and create a lasting …

How to Help Kids Develop Emotional Intelligence

How to Help Kids Develop Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to understand, manage, and express emotions effectively. Teaching children emotional intelligence helps them navigate relationships, handle stress, and develop empathy. This guide provides practical strategies for parents to help kids build strong emotional intelligence skills. 1. Why Is Emotional Intelligence Important? Children with high emotional intelligence:✅ Understand and manage …